Manage Anxiety in Stressful Times: Tips and Strategies

Learn effective strategies to manage anxiety in these stressful and uncertain times. Discover tips to alleviate anxiety and improve your overall well-being.

by Z. Hereford

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Learning to manage anxiety is increasingly important in these stressful and uncertain times. Even in less trying circumstances, most have us have experienced incidents of fear and anxiety.

Indeed, these emotions are necessary for alerting us to the dangers and threats in our environment and help keep us safe (fight-or-flight response, also known as hyper-arousal or the acute stress response).

What is anxiety?

Anxiety is an emotion of uneasiness, inner turmoil, or impending dread of an anticipated event. It is often accompanied by the physical symptoms of heart palpitations, shortness of breath, nausea, and perspiration.

While anxiety is a normal human experience (healthy), it can also be pathological or maladaptive (unhealthy).

When healthy, anxiety alerts us to danger and threats as we experience feelings of apprehension, restlessness, and physical reactions such as a headache, sweating, heart palpitations and upset stomach. It is periodic and contingent upon certain events or situations.

Mal-adaptive or unhealthy anxiety, however, becomes a debilitating disorder requiring professional help and possibly medication. For this article, we will focus on normal anxiety.

10 Helpful Tips for Managing Anxiety

1. Practice deep breathing. One of the first things to do when you get anxious is breathe. Here are two techniques you can try:

  1. The 4-7-8 method: Breathe in for four seconds. Hold your breath for seven seconds, and exhale for eight seconds. Repeat for up to 4 times. If you do the cycle for longer, you might get light-headed.

  2. Long exhale: Spend a bit longer exhaling than you do inhaling. Exhale fully, and then take a big, deep breath for four seconds. Then, exhale for six seconds.

According to Marla W. Deibler, PsyD, deep diaphragmatic breathing reduces anxiety because it activates the body's relaxation response. It helps the body transition from the fight-or-flight response of the sympathetic nervous system to the relaxed response of the parasympathetic nervous system.

2. Practice muscle relaxing techniques. You can reduce anxiety by relaxing your muscles. Here is a technique for doing so:

  1. Get comfortable, close your eyes, and focus on your breathing by breathing slowly into your nose and out of your mouth.

  2. Make a fist and squeeze tightly.

  3. Hold your fist for a few seconds while being aware of the tension you feel.

  4. Slowly open your fingers as your hand begins to feel more relaxed.

  5. Perform the same tensing and releasing with other muscle groups in your body, such as your shoulders, legs and feet.

3. Focus on the moment. Most feelings of stress and anxiety occur when you dwell on the past or worry about the future. Focusing your mind on the present moment helps you relax.

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4. Write in your journal. Identifying your feelings and expressing them in your writing is very therapeutic and stress-relieving. Journaling provides clarity and an emotional release of negative thoughts and feelings. It also facilitates your problem-solving skills while broadening your perspective.

5. Eat well, exercise, and get proper sleep. When you are not well, sleep-deprived or not getting enough exercise, your body is unable to withstand stress and anxiety.

Exercise produces endorphins that counteract anxiety, and proper nutrition has been shown to reduce anxiety. For example, foods rich in antioxidants, omega-3 fatty acids, and B vitamins release neurotransmitters such as serotonin and dopamine that help safely manage anxiety.

6. Understand that anxiety is a normal emotion. Don't let yourself become anxious about being anxious. Anxiety is a natural emotion that evolved in us to help us anticipate and deal with danger and threats. While it may be an uncomfortable feeling, it is meant to alert us.

7. Use aromatherapy. Aromatherapy, in the form of oil, incense, or a candle, is very soothing and helps ease anxiety by activating certain receptors in the brain.

Many experts suggest that aromatherapy activates smell receptors in the nose, which send messages to the brain through the nervous system. Essential oils such as lemon, chamomile, lavender, and bergamot are examples of a few that can be used.

8. Listen to music. Music is wonderful for relieving anxiety and stress. Research has shown that it has a profound, positive effect on the body, mind, and emotions. Music therapy is a growing healthcare field that uses music for healing.

9. Practice Positive Thinking. Studies have shown that by thinking positive thoughts instead of negative ones, you can increase the size of the orbitofrontal cortex (OFC), which is involved in the cognitive processes of decision-making. Professor Florin Dolcos, a lead researcher, says:

"If you can train people's responses, the theory is that over longer periods, their ability to control their responses on a moment-by-moment basis will eventually be embedded in their brain structure."

Having more control over your cognitive processes reduces the predisposition for anxiety.

10. Laugh more. Laughter is the best medicine. Whereas anxiety damages the immune system, laughter releases dopamine and other feel-good chemicals in the brain. It also lessens the stress response by relaxing your muscles and boosting your overall mood.

Benefits of Managing Anxiety:

✔ Improves your overall health - you look and feel better
✔ Increases productivity - you become more focused and productive when not anxious
✔ Increases overall happiness - you enjoy life more, relationships are better, you are more engaged
✔ Increases motivation - you are more willing and able to accomplish your goals
✔ Better decision making - your cognitive functions operate better without anxiety

Unhealthy ways to deal with anxiety:

⮞ Alcohol
⮞ Drugs
⮞ Too much caffeine
⮞ Overusing medications
⮞ Wallowing in negativity
⮞ Denial or ignoring problems
⮞ Reckless behaviors such as resorting to gambling, shopping excessively, etc.

Negative Effects of Anxiety:
Short term:

Inability to concentrate
Irritability
Muscle Aches
Nausea
Shortness of breath
Trembling and Twitching
Dizziness
Fatigue
Headaches

Long term:

Premature memory decline
Increased risk of stroke
Insomnia
Harm to the central nervous system
Weakened immune system
Can lead to depression

Taking time to learn how to manage anxiety is an effort well spent because of the considerable physical, mental, and emotional health benefits it generates.